By Gabriella: Are you struggling to let go of your Ex? There are times in our lives when we need to let go of the attachments, we have to people or things.
One of the hardest things we deal with after a breakup is to get over and get past a relationship that you still feel attached to.
You still think about your ex, dream about your ex and often find yourself automatically doing things that you would have done with and for your ex.
I remember very clearly a day, long after my ex had left me, and I was at the supermarket. Going down the aisle and getting whatever, I needed. I got to the shelf of pickled fish and instinctively I reached out to get the fish. As I was about to put it into my trolley it was like a bucket of cold water washed over me. No, no!
We can become so conditioned to a behavior or a feeling that we keep on with it to our own detriment. I realized at that stage that I needed to do something to allow me to move on with my life. Even though I was a bit reluctant to make that final spiritual break, I knew I had to do it. I had to cut the cords with my ex.
Cords can be created through emotional attachments, soul contracts, sex, marriage vows, or promises. When you have a relationship with someone and that can be any type of relationship, colleagues, lovers, friends and acquaintances your energetic system becomes entangled with theirs and this creates energy cords. When you are thrown into turmoil and are facing painful, emotional and devastating emotions with a person, these cords become strengthened.
I will show you how I did it with the help of Archangel Michael and cutting the cords of negativity and sadness in my life.
This is a beautiful ritual to ask Archangel Michael to help you cut cords and ties with an ex-partner, an untrustworthy friend or anyone who has had a negative impact on your life.
1. Get comfortable – put on your best comfy clothes.
2. Find a comfortable place where you can sit and not be disturbed.
3. Close your eyes and take 3 deep breathes.
4. And call Archangel Michael – say “Archangel Michael, I am calling on you today to please help me get rid of all negative cords that are attached to me.
5. Now picture the person or event with whom you need to cut cords with.
6. As you are picturing them say to Archangel Michael.
7. Please remove all negative energy that surrounds us and is connecting us. Please help me cut the cords of any energy that is not mine and not serving my highest purpose that is of (name of person). Please cut all the cords and remove all the negative energy from my heart, home, body, workplace and anywhere else I may be attached to it.
8. Sit for a few minutes imagining long silver cords flowing out of your body and connected to the person you named and, in your mind, see Archangel Michael bringing down his mighty sword and slicing these cords.
9. As Archangel Michael cuts these cords, envision yourself being filled with beautiful white light. As Archangel Michael gets rid of that energy that is not yours and sends it back to the person you named with absolute love feel yourself getting a little lighter.
10. Give thanks to Archangel Michael and send out blessings and love to the person you have let go and don’t forget to send blessings and love to yourself.
11. After you have done this visualization you might feel —lighter, emotional, or tired. This why I like to do this in the night before I go to bed. Your feelings will balance out over the next few days.
I wish you all the best with feelings of happiness and hope returning to your life.
Blessings, Love and Light,