By Jennifer Jean: In this article, I will reveal the most effective ways to manifest Love and your Soulmate into your life.
The absolute and most essential part of this process starts with YOU. If you are still wondering why you haven’t found love or your soulmate, then the chances are the only person standing in your way… Is YOU. Now let me explain further the steps you can take right now that will change your life forever.
Make a decision to be a priority in your life. Give yourself the attention, respect and permission to Love and to be Lovable. Accept yourself as a loving, generous and valuable person. Take time for yourself to regroup your priorities. Fall in love with yourself! This is a must. Forgive yourself for not knowing what you didn’t know until you lived through it. You need to honor your journey and trust yourself. Use those past experiences to grow, learn and evolve. Make a commitment to yourself to Love yourself first, because that is the person you will be spending the rest of your life with! When you choose loving positive thoughts towards yourself, you are upgrading your mind and vibration which will in turn upgrade your life. If you don’t treat yourself with love and respect, other’s will follow your example. You can break the cycle now. Happiness is a choice, not a result. Nothing will make you happy until you choose to be happy. No person will make you happy unless you decide to be happy. Your happiness will not come to you. It can only come from you.
A very critical step in this process is to heal from past relationships/lovers. In the first step I talk about forgiving yourself. This step is forgiving others. Now you’re going to ask, but how do I forgive so and so for all the hurt and pain they caused me… right? The most powerful quote I have ever read came from Buddha “Holding on to anger is like drinking poison, expecting the other person to die” Anger and resentment will only eat away at your soul and keep you prisoner to a very low vibration. Remember old ways will not open new doors. Never ever allow someone else’s bad behavior determine your attitude. That is the equivalent of feeding them while starving yourself. You have no control over another person’s choices or behavior but, you most certainly have the choice how you will react to it. You change for two reasons, either you learn enough that you want to or you’ve been hurt enough that you have to. Sometimes in order to move on fully we will just have to accept an apology we never got. Wanting revenge is a sign you are still in pain. When you heal, you will wish those who hurt you well. Strive for this as soon as possible. You do not want to attract another person with the same qualities that you have outgrown.
Now you need to truly live by your intentions. If you want something you’ve never had, you will have to do something you’ve never done. Believe in yourself, remember faith and fear both demand you to believe in something you can’t see so the choice is yours! By feeling happy and grateful now is the fastest way to manifest love into your life. Believe in yourself and your desires so much that it has no choice but to manifest. Be the person you want to attract. What you think you become, what you feel, you attract and what you imagine is what you create. The future is not something we enter, but rather the future is something we create. You must train your mind to a higher frequency of positive thoughts. Positivity is a choice and the happiness of your life depends on the quality of your thoughts. Time will pass regardless so you can choose to spend it creating the life you want or spend it living the life you don’t want. The choice is always yours. Every negative thought is a down payment on your failure, whereas every positive thought is an investment in your future. Be mindful of your self talk, it’s a conversation with the Universe.
You are now ready to call in your Soulmate! By practicing these methods I have just discussed, you are now an energetic match to manifesting Love and your soulmate into your life. Just remember there are no shortcuts to any place worth going. To help you to stay on track of your goals and desires I find it extremely helpful to journal everyday what you want from a partner/lover/soulmate. You will start to live by your own goals and desires. If you want unconditional love, you will start to love yourself unconditionally. If you desire trust and honesty then you will be trustworthy and honest. It acts as a mirror effect. Start to read motivational books and quotes. You can go to your local library or find many free articles and inspirational quotes online or on social media.
Most importantly smile! How you present yourself will attract a quality person into your life. A smile will go a long way in allowing others to know you are open and available for Love. Value and respect yourself, and others will follow your lead.
Love and Light,