You are stuck in between a rock and a hard spot. You know that you are unhappy but you worry more about being alone. This is such a common scenario when it comes to relationships. Here is a list of top ten reasons to stay and top ten reasons to go:<\/p>\n
You know you are where you need to be when:<\/p>\n
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1.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 He\/she\u00a0 makes time for you<\/p>\n
2.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 He\/she compliments you<\/p>\n
3.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 He\/she makes you feel confident in who you are<\/p>\n
4.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 He\/she cares unconditionally<\/p>\n
5.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 He\/she does things for you to make you happy<\/p>\n
6.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 He\/she considers your feelings and tries to give you validation<\/p>\n
7.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 He\/she is a reflection of your love<\/p>\n
8.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 He\/she is there when you need them<\/p>\n
9.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 He\/she puts you first and defends you to others<\/p>\n
10.\u00a0\u00a0 He\/she not only tells you but shows you they care<\/p>\n
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If you are settling for less than any of these ten reasons then you are not being true to yourself because being in love is about feeling you are both getting the best end of the deal. As my mother would say you both need to feel as if you won the lottery!<\/p>\n
But other times you are with someone that just is not in the relationship as much as you are.<\/p>\n
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Ten reasons to go are:<\/p>\n
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1.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 He\/she never has time for you<\/p>\n
2.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 He\/she never compliments you or rarely does<\/p>\n
3.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 He\/she belittles you to make themselves look bigger and in control<\/p>\n
4.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 He\/she lacks in caring about your feelings. There is conditions to the relationship<\/p>\n
5.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 He\/she makes you cry and be depressed more than smile *****<\/p>\n
6.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 He\/she gives no validation causing you to be insecure all the time<\/p>\n
7.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 He\/she reflects badly on you<\/p>\n
8.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 He\/she is never there when you need them. Always busy with other things and other people<\/p>\n
9.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 He\/she never defends you but joins in when people talk against you<\/p>\n
10.\u00a0\u00a0 He\/she\u00a0 hardly shows or not at all that they care<\/p>\n
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Relationships are about being honest and having trust. If you have no trust you have no relationship. You need to know when there are red flags so that you can avoid getting hurt and being stuck on a \u201cwaiting\u201d train where you are the one moping and they are the one doing as they please. In love there are no excuses, no doubts, and no lies. So often than not people sit in hopes of someone changing for the better and hold on to only end up miserable the entire time. If someone is not moving mountains to be with you\u2026\u2026.then they are not meant to be.\u00a0 The saying is so true, \u201cIf you love someone let them go and if they come back its meant to be but if not say goodbye.\u201d The fears of being lonely should never overcome the fear of being taken for granted. If you ever doubt where you are in your relationship the best advice is to open your heart and write down the pros and cons of staying together and trust me the answers will start to appear before you. Also the most important thing to remember is that if you don\u2019t love yourself FIRST, then you cannot love another. A man or woman is not the key to happiness, a man or woman is a bonus to your happiness if with the right one.<\/p>\n
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So stop sulking and hold your head high because saying goodbye to someone that makes you MISERABLE\u00a0 gives you opportunity to meet the one that will make you MAGNIFICENT!<\/p>\n
By: Counselor Karen<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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